{"id":3131,"date":"2023-07-04T17:07:31","date_gmt":"2023-07-04T14:07:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ro.solutionsurfers.ro\/?p=3131"},"modified":"2026-07-24T17:24:55","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T14:24:55","slug":"how-i-can-be-useful-as-a-coach-when-i-only-have-one-coaching-session","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/how-i-can-be-useful-as-a-coach-when-i-only-have-one-coaching-session\/","title":{"rendered":"How I Can Be Useful as a Coach When I Only Have One Coaching Session"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\">Article written by: Peter Szab\u00f3, Master Coach \u0219i Trainer. Traducere de Dr. Petra M\u00fcller-Demary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How I Can Be Useful as a Coach When I Only Have One Coaching Session available?<strong> Solution Focus Brief Coaching<\/strong> offers a different perspective on the evolving body of knowledge within the coaching profession. Coaching can be<strong> highly effective even in a single session<\/strong> and can lead to lasting results, without automatically requiring an ongoing coaching process. In a market where packages of ten sessions or six-month contracts are the norm, the value offered by <strong>Solution Focus Brief Coaching <\/strong>stands out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-87cd0259a7595c8c57ef016886f6f800\"><strong>How I Can Be Useful as a Coach When I Only Have One Coaching Session<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Brief Coaching involves a radically different understanding of how to be most useful as a coach. Below, you will find a case example based on <strong>a single coaching session. <\/strong>The focus is on the interaction between client and coach, together with ten core assumptions that guided the coach\u2019s contributions in this specific case. The paper reflects on how these assumptions may have influenced both the brevity of the conversation and its lasting impact on the client. It also examines more conventional assumptions that differ from those on which a <strong>Brief Coach<\/strong> bases their practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong>Five Good Reasons to Remain Sceptical<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have you ever wondered how you can be most useful as a coach when you may have only one session available? I am convinced that the practical Brief Coaching experience described below can offer you valuable insights. Some of the ideas you are about to read may seem unusual, surprising, or even na\u00efve. I therefore suggest remaining cautious about <strong>the shift in coaching <\/strong>paradigm presented here. There are at least five good reasons to maintain a healthy and thoughtful scepticism:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If what you have done so far as a coach has worked well for you and your clients, then do more of it. There is no reason to become uncertain or to adopt a different construction of coaching reality. On the contrary, as long as you remain confident and successful in your work as a coach, there is a good chance that your approach will continue to serve you well (Wampold, B. E., 2001).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Steve de Shazer, the founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/introduction-to-brief-solution-focused-coaching\/\">the Solution Focus approach<\/a>, made no claims about the field of coaching. In a conversation with the author shortly before his death, he stated: \u201cAll our empirical findings come from studies in therapy. In therapy, we have sufficient scientific evidence regarding both the brevity of the process and the durability of the results. As for the use of brief solution-focused conversations in coaching, I have no experience and therefore cannot say whether they might be useful for coaching clients.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And one more important reason to remain sceptical: working in a solution-focused way requires a radical shift in paradigm. We are invited to change where we place our attention in coaching. A Brief Coach focuses on the details of the preferred future and on building solutions. This way of viewing clients differs fundamentally from traditional approaches that focus on solving the problem. The difference between these two perspectives is as dramatic as seeing the Earth as round rather than flat.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"padding-top:0;padding-right:0;padding-bottom:0;padding-left:0\">Any method or technique contributes only a small part to the success of a coaching session. The most robust scientific meta-study currently available on genuinely helpful professional conversations (Duncan, Hubble, and Miller, 2001) shows that the method used &#8211; the technique or explanatory model &#8211; accounts for only 15% of the outcome. Factors such as the client\u2019s resources, which account for 40% of success, and the coach\u2013coachee relationship, which accounts for 30%, are far more relevant to the results achieved than the method applied. So set aside any academic disputes about the \u201cmost useful method\u201d of coaching. Solution Focus Brief Coaching may not be it either.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Brief Coaching <\/strong>offers neither a theory nor explanatory models. From this perspective, it does not meet the conventional expectations of a scientific approach. At best, it offers a theory of having no theory. Steve de Shazer preferred to describe, in simple language, what had proved useful in his conversations rather than attempting to explain why it might be so. He was concerned that, if he introduced theories and explanatory models, they might be regarded as \u201ctrue\u201d rather than simply as working hypotheses still under development (de Shazer, 1984).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-9-color has-theme-palette-1-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-paragraph\">This paper therefore describes one of many possible constructions of coaching reality &#8211; one of many possible ways of being useful as a coach. Feel free to try some of these assumptions within a<strong> solution-building perspective<\/strong>. And remember to observe carefully whether your new assumptions are genuinely useful to the client.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-left has-theme-palette-4-color has-theme-palette-8-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If what you are doing works, do more of it; if it does not work, do something different.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\"><strong>Case Example: Brief Coaching Assumptions<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The following single <strong>coaching<\/strong> session with one of my clients illustrates the typical considerations and assumptions of a Brief Coach. I have selected ten of my own assumptions that seem most relevant to the brevity of this coaching conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I deliberately chose this particular form of case description. In his book <em>Words Were Originally Magic<\/em>, Steve de Shazer (1994) discusses the influence of therapists\u2019 assumptions on the language used in a conversation. Another book by our colleague Ben Furman, <em>Pickpockets on a Nudist Camp<\/em> (1992), describes from a <strong>systemic perspective <\/strong>how clients willingly adapt to the assumptions made by therapists and, in doing so, happily co-construct a reality that fits those assumptions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Throughout the following case description, you will witness my client\u2019s ability to learn quickly and flexibly. In line with my own coaching assumptions, she soon discovers that she has already made far more <strong>progress<\/strong> than she initially believed. She also willingly co-constructs<strong> sustainable solutions <\/strong>and <strong>resources<\/strong> that she can access independently, without requiring further coaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\">A) Contracting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The request came from the Human Resources Director of a large industrial supplier. The coaching session was intended for Helen, a highly capable line manager who reported directly to the Managing Director. She was currently leading two departments and was also responsible for an urgent strategic project. She was under enormous pressure, and the expected results were critical, so she was fully entitled to receive<strong> the best possible support <\/strong>in order to succeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The agreement between the Human Resources department and the coach was as follows:<\/strong><br>\u2022 The coaching fee was payable from the first meeting; there was no free assessment session.<br>\u2022 If the first meeting did not prove useful from the client\u2019s perspective, no fee would be charged.<br>\u2022 If the client felt that a single session was sufficient, twice the standard fee would be invoiced, because the greatest added value of a Brief Coach is generated from the very beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong>Assumption 1:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:0px;padding-bottom:0px;grid-template-columns:minmax(0, calc(60% - ((var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem) * 1 )\/2)))minmax(0, calc(40% - ((var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem) * 1 )\/2)));}.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id3131_0ddd8f-98 alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column3131_e33282-6f > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column3131_e33282-6f inner-column-1\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A first session can create such a useful beginning that the client is then ready to continue independently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a coach specialising in <strong>Solution Focus Brief Coaching<\/strong>, I tend to approach every session as though it were the only opportunity I would have to work with a client. At the end of a session, clients decide whether they would prefer to arrange another meeting and when, or whether they would rather test their ideas in their everyday professional life and contact me again only if and when they feel another session would be useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In general, I meet most of my clients for a single session. This is consistent with my belief that one well-focused session should be enough to offer a person sufficient momentum to continue the change process in everyday life. My role is to help clients create a useful beginning for themselves. One beginning should be enough, although, of course, the total number of sessions is determined by what the client considers useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How can I be useful as a coach when I have only one coaching session available?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column3131_a25f3e-37\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"945\" height=\"945\" src=\"https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/07\/Solutionsurfers-Solution-Focus-Brief-Coaching-2-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3192\" srcset=\"https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/07\/Solutionsurfers-Solution-Focus-Brief-Coaching-2-1.png 945w, https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/07\/Solutionsurfers-Solution-Focus-Brief-Coaching-2-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/07\/Solutionsurfers-Solution-Focus-Brief-Coaching-2-1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/solutionsurfers.ro\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2023\/07\/Solutionsurfers-Solution-Focus-Brief-Coaching-2-1-768x768.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 945px) 100vw, 945px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This assumption differs from the business model widely used in English-speaking countries, where coaches often see themselves as supporting commitment and maintaining continuity until the original goal has been fully achieved. This may involve weekly <strong>coaching conversations<\/strong> and contracts lasting several months. In German-speaking countries, coaches often consider a thorough analysis of the client\u2019s situation necessary before coaching sessions can be genuinely useful. The first session therefore serves to develop sufficient understanding for the appropriate interventions to be offered later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I assume that people seek coaching not simply because they have a goal or a problem, but because they feel stuck. What coaching clients are looking for is therefore not a complete solution, but a way to become unstuck. Once they are no longer stuck, they will continue in whatever way makes sense to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\">B) The Initial Telephone Conversation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Helen calls me to arrange a date and time for an initial coaching meeting. During the ten-minute conversation, she mentions at least five urgent issues she would like to address. She confirms that her current situation is almost unbearable because of the exceptional workload and the importance of the expected results. She describes several obstacles and challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She briefly mentions that, over the past ten days, she has begun to adopt a much more decisive leadership style, which has brought her some relief. However, there is still a new Managing Director who is not yet fully operational, a pressing strategic project she is responsible for, and 2,000 employees across the two departments she currently leads, all waiting for clear direction and answers. She is also wondering whether she should begin preparing for the next step in her career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I assure her of my support, and we arrange the meeting for the following week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-theme-palette-8-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clients Bring Relevant Resources to Coaching Sessions.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I recognise that assuming relevant resources are present where clients may believe they are lacking is not immediately obvious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, I often notice myself listening to clients as though they are already bringing the relevant resources into the session. I therefore paid close attention to Helen\u2019s brief remark about the improvements she had begun to make over the previous ten days. Assuming that this might represent the beginning of the solution she was already bringing with her, I reminded myself to explore it in greater depth during the first session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I pay close attention to what I choose to focus on as a coach. Depending on our own assumptions about how to be most useful, we tend to listen for different aspects of what clients tell us. Do we focus on the obstacles or on deeply hidden fears? Do we take note of the long list of topics presented for future sessions?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a Brief Coach, I naturally focused on the improvements Helen had already made. When clients report improvements, it means they have already begun to discover workable ways forward. It also means they are already bringing the resources they need to put their solutions into action. As a result, there is much less for the coach to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\">C) Beginning the Coaching Session<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Coach: \u201cWhat needs to happen as a result of our session today for your journey to my office to have been worthwhile and useful to you?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Helen repeats the five possible topics and, after a brief moment of reflection, focuses on the one that feels most important to her: \u201cGiven the circumstances, I need to be much more decisive in my leadership role with both the CEO and the project team.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong>2:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\" class=\"wp-block-list has-theme-palette-9-color has-theme-palette-1-background-color has-text-color has-background\">\n<li>The coach does not necessarily need to know the facts and circumstances of the problem in order to be helpful.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I realise that this is a delicate assumption. What I need to ensure is that, from the client\u2019s perspective, I know enough about the facts and circumstances for the CLIENT to feel <strong>confident<\/strong> that I can begin to be helpful. I trust that Helen will naturally tell me the little I need to know. I deliberately avoid asking questions such as \u201cWhat is this about?\u201d, \u201cHow did it arise?\u201d, or \u201cWhat else is involved?\u201d. I assume that Helen already knows the answers to these questions very well, has probably thought about them many times, and may even have repeated them to others. Since I also assume that <strong>there is no necessary connection between the problem and its solution<\/strong>, there is clearly little value in exploring further details of the problem. Coaches working within a problem-solving paradigm naturally tend to make a different assumption here. They believe that understanding the problem is a highly useful way to begin addressing it as effectively as possible. As a result, they spend more time here, sometimes most of the session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead, I prefer to follow Helen\u2019s stated goal. I invite her to explore how our conversation might have a <strong>positive impact<\/strong>, what she might do differently afterwards, and how this would be useful for her or for the company. \u201cSuppose you are more decisive, how would that help? What are you not doing now that you might do then? Who would be the first stakeholder to notice?\u201d This is what I call solution building. The <strong>coach<\/strong> and <strong>coachee<\/strong> briefly reflect on what difference it would make if Helen were somehow able to bring greater authority and determination into her actions. In the end, Helen states clearly that this is a topic worth beginning with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong>3:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Clients know best what is useful for their own progress. <\/strong>The fact that I, as the coach, know relatively little about the facts and circumstances of their problem can be an advantage. The less I know, the easier it is for me to rely on the client\u2019s judgement about what is useful for moving the process forward. I can trust and accept that the client is the true expert in finding their own solutions. I much prefer this to challenging the client\u2019s perspective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I recently worked with colleagues from France who take a<strong> systemic perspective.<\/strong> They said that I was being lazy by refusing to take <strong>responsibility<\/strong> for directing the process. They found it shocking that I left it to the client to define not only the content of the solution, but also the way of getting there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cOkay, let us place decisiveness in your leadership role on a scale from 1 to 10. Ten means that you are as decisive as possible in your actions, while 1 means the opposite. Where do you move on this scale?\u201d Helen says that she moves between 2 and 4. \u201cSometimes I manage it better, but last week, for example, I was too gentle and unclear with the Managing Director, and my request was never acted upon.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI understand,\u201d I said as the coach, \u201cand what are you already doing differently at 4 compared with 2 on this scale?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With growing <strong>enthusiasm<\/strong>, Helen begins to describe some of the changes she has successfully implemented over the previous two weeks. She has started focusing on fewer priorities and stopped doing other things. For example, she withdrew from a management meeting despite strong opposition from Human Resources. She asked an internal client to prioritise two urgent requests and declined to proceed with the second one. The coach and client discuss how Helen managed to make such difficult and unpopular decisions and how she communicated them firmly enough for her decisions to stand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong>4:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Solution talk creates solutions.<\/strong> This is probably the assumption that most strongly influences the way I work as a coach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whenever clients give me information about what is missing &#8211; problem talk, which happens quite often &#8211; my first impulse is to ask about what is already working &#8211; solution talk. What I genuinely hope to achieve through this approach is to create a broader range of choices within the client\u2019s perception. If Helen mainly notices the part of reality that may still be missing &#8211; between 2 and 10 &#8211; I gently tap her on the shoulder and guide her attention towards another part of reality that is equally true: the range between 1 and 4 on her scale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In problem-focused conversation, Helen is aware only of what is missing. With some encouragement, she gains the <strong>freedom<\/strong> to decide which parts of reality she wants to <strong>focus<\/strong> on. And the more she talks about what is already working well and how she is making it happen, the easier it will be for her to maintain these things or even strengthen them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know that, at this point, many coaching colleagues act on the basis of a different assumption. \u201cWhat is holding you back? What is preventing you from moving further up the scale?\u201d they ask, assuming that problems can only be resolved by understanding and addressing the deeper causes behind them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The alternative offered by <strong>Brief Coaching<\/strong> is to explore all the existing forces that already point in the preferred direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\">D) The Preferred Future<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Helen does not want to remain between 2 and 4 on the scale. Her goal is to reach at least 7 or 8 &#8211; according to her own humorous judgement, she would be unbearable at 10. I look with curiosity at this forward-moving energy: \u201cSuppose you somehow manage to reach 7 or 8 &#8211; I do not yet know how, nor do I know whether this is possible under the current circumstances. Just suppose for a moment that you are already at 7 or 8. What exactly would you be doing differently then compared with now?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over the next ten minutes, Helen develops a highly detailed and multifaceted picture of the changes she wants and the new behaviours she would demonstrate. The coach asks how the members of the project team would notice these differences, how the CEO would notice them in their next meeting, and how the teams in her department would recognise that she had reached 8.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong><\/strong>5:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clients have access to their preferred future, which they can describe in terms of actions and interactions. They often find it easier to describe this <strong>preferred future<\/strong> when it is placed hypothetically beyond the obstacles and challenges they are facing. Surprisingly, clients are often very capable of describing where they want to arrive, even without knowing whether or how they will get there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I consider this ability to <strong>envision<\/strong> their future to be one of the client\u2019s most powerful resources. In my experience, developing detailed descriptions of their own future actions increases the likelihood that those desired actions will occur. Once again,<strong> there appears to be no necessary connection between the problem and its solutions.<\/strong> Human beings can therefore, at least hypothetically, move directly towards the solution without first resolving the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This shortcut makes little sense if the coach believes that problems and obstacles must first be addressed properly, both during the coaching session and in real life. That assumption clearly leads to a completely different interaction between coach and client. Different questions need to be asked, and different steps need to be taken to secure <strong>commitment<\/strong> and follow-through. This assumption may well lead to the same result, but through a much longer process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Both client and coach are fully aware that they are talking about an imagined and hypothetical future. Helen knows that she is currently only between 2 and 4 on her scale while speaking about 7 and 8. Even so, this imagined scenario creates a sense of attraction and strengthening determination that can be heard in her voice.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:40px;row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px;grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id3131_ca78a0-04 alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column3131_d50708-c3 inner-column-1\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\"><strong>E) Precursors of the Solution<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, Helen\u2019s descriptions of herself at 7 and 8 sounded so convincing and real that the coach asked: \u201cWhat examples from the recent past come to mind that already pointed towards your 7 and 8?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Two recent examples come to Helen\u2019s mind: one incident with the project team that she rates at 6.5 on the scale, and another with the Managing Director that she rates at 7.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cYes, it is quite remarkable. Do you know what I did? I was just about to reply to one of his friendly emails when I stood up, left my office, and went to see him. I told him that I needed his commitment to support the project, or we would stop it altogether. That was a 7, and it really made a difference.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Together, we carefully explore the success factors in each example, and Helen gains much greater clarity about how she manages to act when she is decisive in her leadership role. We also examine what helps her initiate this process.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong><\/strong>6:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-9-color has-theme-palette-1-background-color has-text-color has-background wp-block-paragraph\">There are always real examples of precursors to the preferred future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Notice that I did not ask, \u201cAre there any such examples?\u201d Instead, I assumed that these examples genuinely existed. The client was simply invited to look for them. Speaking of self-fulfilling prophecies: in 15 years of coaching practice, I have never encountered a client who was unable to identify such precursors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Although Helen had rated herself between 2 and 4 only twenty minutes earlier, she now comes up with examples at 6 and 7. It is as though a sudden recovery of <strong>solution-focused <\/strong>memories has taken place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to sustaining <strong>improvements<\/strong>, it is easier to maintain a solution that is already working in practice than to develop and sustain entirely new ways of improving. The apparently lazier route of identifying what already works seems more promising for achieving faster and more lasting results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\"><strong>F) Signs of Continuing Progress<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" style=\"padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px\">The client and coach are now 40 minutes into the coaching session. At this point, the client pauses to write. She takes a piece of paper and notes down a list of things that come to mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong><\/strong>7:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Progress is inevitable.<\/strong> I often work with clients who take the initiative during the session and begin preparing to track their own progress. This is usually a good sign that responsibility for progress remains where it belongs: with the client.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If Helen had not taken the initiative, I might have asked her how she and others would notice that she had already begun to make further progress. The question assumes that <strong>progress<\/strong> is inevitable. My concern as a coach is not whether progress will happen; my concern is how Helen and the people around her will notice it. Useful changes sometimes go unnoticed because they seem so natural and subtle. On the other hand, new and useful behaviour is positively reinforced and more easily sustained when it is consciously recognised as such. Hence the questions: \u201cHow will you notice? How will others notice? How will you notice that others have noticed?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Other coaches, who typically remain involved with the client during the implementation phase, might ask: \u201cWhat do you need to do next in order to make progress?\u201d In a follow-up session, this list of actions can then be reviewed. In <strong>Brief Coaching<\/strong>, I prefer to rely on the assumption that progress will happen anyway. Rather than narrowing the client\u2019s options down to a set of agreed tasks, I open up the range of forms that progress might take, trusting that some of the options discussed will fit the solution best and will therefore materialise. The more different<strong> signs of progress<\/strong> we discuss, the more likely it is that some of them will be recognised when they occur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Helen\u2019s action plan consists of a variety of ideas. These emerge from the details she described while talking about her <strong>preferred future <\/strong>and her most recent successful moments. \u201cI know exactly what I need to do,\u201d she says. The coach asks how they can bring the session to a close in the most useful way for Helen. Looking at the notes from her scaling responses, she says: \u201cTo be honest, I realise that I am much further ahead than I thought even this morning. It is almost embarrassing that I have taken up your time. I realise that I do not need coaching because I am already well on my way.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong><\/strong>8:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A coach helps clients become <strong>aware of solutions <\/strong>that already exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This used to be my favourite assumption about what I do as a Brief Coach. I was therefore rather puzzled by Helen\u2019s remark that coaching was not necessary. At first, I thought: \u201cWhat a pity she did not notice that she became aware of how much further ahead she already was only because of my useful questions.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over the following days, I tried to reassure myself by thinking that perhaps the best coaching is when clients believe they have done everything themselves. It took me some time to realise that my rather egocentric Assumption might have been less useful to Helen than her own assumption that she was simply further ahead than she had thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Since then, I have begun experimenting with a new assumption.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><strong><strong><strong>Assumption <\/strong><\/strong>9:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The coach is simply a <strong>witness<\/strong> along the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suppose Helen had indeed progressed further than she realised. Suppose she truly did not need <strong>coaching<\/strong>. Suppose I was simply a witness to the fact that Helen was already on her way. Suppose I did not need to add or do anything. Suppose that everything which became possible during the conversation became possible between Helen and a curious witness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The best possible outcome would be this: Helen attributes all the resources to where they truly belong &#8211; herself. This is a promising beginning for a brief coaching session that may lead to lasting and sustainable solutions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color\"><strong>G) The End of the Coaching Session<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The coaching session ends after 50 minutes. Helen says that she will call if she would like another conversation. Over the following months, the coach receives two short emails from her. Three weeks after the session, Helen proudly shares <strong>a success story <\/strong>about her strategic project. Approximately four months later, she informs the coach that she has accepted an offer to become the Managing Director of a company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\" class=\"wp-block-list has-theme-palette-9-color has-theme-palette-1-background-color has-text-color has-background\">\n<li class=\"has-theme-palette-9-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-58a575cb9068c045a10a02fc76b381fa\"><strong>Acknowledgements:<\/strong> Brief Coaching has its roots in the practice and research of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Steve_de_Shazer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Steve de Shazer and Insoo Kim Berg. <\/a>They successfully learned how to work briefly and then to focus on solutions in order to become even more effective. I would also like to thank Svea van der Hoorn for editing this text in her thoughtful and careful style.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color\"><em>About the Author<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Peter Szab\u00f3<\/strong> is a Master Certified Coach and holds a doctorate in law. After 15 years working in corporate human resources management, he specialised in Brief Coaching for senior executives. He teaches coaching in several postgraduate programmes across Europe and North America and facilitates Brief Coaching workshops for corporations and institutions around the world. Peter Szab\u00f3 is the founder and director of Switzerland\u2019s largest coaching school. He is also a member of the International Coaching Federation\u2019s credential assessment team.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For those who would like to explore Brief Coaching in greater depth and better understand its practical and theoretical foundations, the following works offer valuable points of reference. They remind us that a well-focused conversation can open new possibilities, reveal resources that are already present, and create lasting change, even within a surprisingly short period of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Recommended Reading<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Berg, I. K., and Szab\u00f3, P. (2005). <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Coaching-Lasting-Solutions-Norton-Professional\/dp\/0393704726\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Brief Coaching for Lasting Solutions<\/a><\/em>. New York: W. W. Norton.<br>Jackson, P., and McKergow, M. (2007). <em>The Solutions Focus<\/em>. London: Nicholas Brealey Publishing.<br>Szab\u00f3, P., and Meier, D. (2009). <em>Coaching Plain &amp; Simple<\/em>. New York: W. W. Norton.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bibliography<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">de Shazer, S. (1984). \u201cThe Death of Resistance.\u201d <em>Family Process<\/em>, 23, 11\u201317.<br>de Shazer, S. (1994). <em>Words Were Originally Magic<\/em>. New York: W. W. Norton.<br>Duncan, B. L., Hubble, M. A., and Miller, S. D. (1999). <em>The Heart and Soul of Change<\/em>. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.<br>Furman, B., and Ahola, T. (1992). <em>Pickpockets on a Nudist Camp<\/em>. Adelaide: Dulwich Centre Publications.<br>Wampold, B. E. (2001). <em>The Great Psychotherapy Debate<\/em>. Mahwah, New Jersey: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Coaching Reloaded \u2013 The Assumptions of a Brief Coach. 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